People often think about how others percept them, how others see you though their eyes. And we crawl into their minds and try to see what they see. But when you do this is your interpretation correct? Maybe not, maybe it is better to work on facts and facts only.
If you think what they think, they most probably will think what you thought. Yes, take your time to read that last sentence again.
Our minds work at full speed almost the best part of the day. And what most of us do not realize is that when we speak to other people we are actually communicating much more than just our audio signals.
We communicate hand signals, body posture, facial expressions, and variations of our eyes. Now all other people will recognize these body signals, if we like it or not, but they do. Even when their conscience mind is not consciously registering what their body is telling them. Their subconscious mind is definitely registering, and responding.
So if you think what they might think, you are probably communicating your thoughts and your perceptions with your body languages aswell. Their subconscious mind is now reading what you thought about what they might think.
Are you still with it? Or am I just thinking what you thought?
When their subconscious mind becomes aware of your body language, and the subconscious mind never lies, the conscience mind now will respond.
The best advise, do not think about what other people think. Just do what you do. But think before you speak.
Being self aware and basing information on facts rather then feelings alone, will keep communication more clear and effective.
CREDITS:
Author - Frank Amptmeijer
EMAIL - frank.amptmeijer@hotmail.com
RESEARCH:
Franklin-Paul Blake
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